IT TAKES A VILLAGE – November 29, 2015

It Takes a Village

~ Joyce Fields

“It Takes a Village” is a popular African proverb, but that’s what my generation actually lived.  Children did not have to be afraid, and parents did not have to be afraid for them.

All the adults looked out for all the children.  In the summertime, we could walk for miles to visit family or friends–as long as we were back home before the street lights came on.  You never heard of a child being kidnapped or killed.  And you never heard of an adult being kidnapped or killed, either!

What happened?!!

Children were protected.  We were allowed to have a care-free childhood.  Virtually none of us knew it, but virtually all of us were financially poor.  Lack of money did not negatively affect our well being.

We were not allowed in the business of the adults.  We never heard talk of sex, worry about bills or money, or threats of divorce.  We didn’t see brutal violence perpetrated—one against another.

The “village” protected all children.

When children went into a store, they did not see “girlie” magazines anywhere.  Those publications were kept behind the counter, and men had to ask for them.  Children were protected.

Children watched television, so television programs did not show people having sex, and it did not show brutal violence.  They saw hugs and kisses–that’s it.  The cowboys shot each other in the arm or leg or shot the gun out of each other’s hands.  Sometimes someone was shot in the back, but children never saw anyone get shot in the head!  Children were protected.

There is no way for children’s minds to intellectually and/or properly process visions of sex and/or violence.

Children must be protected.

And children must be educated.  Well educated.

We can’t blame the children for being “bad” or “stupid.”  Ill-behaved and ignorant children are made, not born.

By teaching manners and insisting on academic achievement, we improve the present generation and make it better for the next generation.

Each generation is responsible for the generation coming behind it.  And each generation serves the generation before it.  So, we all have a vested interest in doing our best for children!

It takes no money to teach manners.  And it doesn’t take a lot of money to teach a child to read and write–just the cost of paper and pencil.

Polite children make life more pleasant for everyone.  And once children learn to read and write, they can become better thinkers.

We can all help the children in our families.  We can broaden the scope to include our extended families and our neighborhoods.

We ARE the “Village.”

Stop.  Look around.  Listen.  Think.

Take action!


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About Line of Serenity (Joyce Fields)

As a thought leader for today's generation, I choose to be part of the solution and am doing things that positively impact people's lives. In addition to being a happy, married (since 1967!) woman, sister, aunt, mother, grandmother, great grandmother, I have over 40 years' experience in "Corporate America": Stenographer, Secretary, Supervisor, Analyst, Office Manager, Executive Assistant. I am also a professional proofreader and the author of 10 books (mostly non-fiction)--
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2 Responses to IT TAKES A VILLAGE – November 29, 2015

  1. Sandra Garth says:

    This a great article Joyce and the message should be repeated over and over again. Thank you!

  2. You’re welcome, Sandy!! Glad you enjoyed it!!

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