EXCERPT: “The Best Way to Keep a Man is to Let Him Go (among other things)”

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God put the onus on men that they must be willing to die for their women. So, I figured that, if I were a man, I would not be willing to die for a woman who could not show me that she was DEFINITELY in MY corner. In most long-term relationships where the couple is in their 70’s, or 80’s, or 90’s, the man seems content to sit back and relax and let his wife be the assertive one. Why? Probably because, in virtually all situations, she has proven that she will say and do the right thing. He knows that he can trust her judgment. That did not happen overnight. It also did not happen without a lot of tears shed by the female, a lot of unlearning undertaken by the female, a lot of “heated discussions,” and a lot of other stuff.

My cousins Millail and Henrietta Jackson were married for over 60 years (he has passed on). A young lady asked Henrietta for the secret to staying married that long. Henrietta replied, “You have to take a lot of s**t.” Amen!

In order for a relationship to last 25 or more years, the female has to be able to deal effectively with negative forces. Anybody can hang in
there when the forces are positive. What really counts is hanging in there when the forces are negative. That’s what strengthens the bond between a man and his woman. When the woman can do that, she shows her man that she is worth coming home to; she is worth his willingness to die for her.

One of the biggest negative forces is a negative female who nags too much, starts too many arguments, finds fault too much, etc. Would you want to be around someone who was constantly nagging or complaining? Probably not. So why inflict that on another person?

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My Simple Quotes to Live By – Week of July 20, 2014

“EDUCATION SHOULD BE FREE–IT PROVIDES BENEFITS TO ALL OF SOCIETY” ~ Joyce Fields

 

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For “lower education,”–elementary school, middle school, and high school–it’s all free, or at least paid for by the taxes that we all pay.

But when it comes to college or “higher education,” that costs a bundle and can send a family into the “poor house.”

It stands to reason that, like “lower education,” “higher education” should also be free. All of society benefits when the entire population is well educated.

It lowers the level of ignorance. And, God knows, the world could sure use a lower level of ignorance!

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“EDUCATION SHOULD BE FREE–IT PROVIDES BENEFITS TO ALL OF SOCIETY” – Another simple quote that you can live by!

My 70th birthday - February 4, 2014

My 70th birthday – February 4, 2014

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My Simple Quotes to Live By – Week of June 29, 2014

“IF YOU’RE NOT THE PERFECT MAN, STOP LOOKING FOR THE PERFECT WOMAN.  IF YOU’RE NOT THE PERFECT WOMAN, STOP LOOKING FOR THE PERFECT MAN.” ~ Joyce Fields

 

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You often hear men speaking of what they consider to be the “perfect” woman.  She doesn’t exist.  It’s a figment of their imaginations.  Whatever woman a man gets, she will have faults, weaknesses, idiosyncrasies, etc.

You often hear women speaking of what they consider to be the “perfect” man.  He doesn’t exist.  It’s a figment of their imaginations.  Whatever man a woman gets, he will have faults, weaknesses, idiosyncrasies, etc.

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“IF YOU’RE NOT THE PERFECT MAN, STOP LOOKING FOR THE PERFECT WOMAN.  IF YOU’RE NOT THE PERFECT WOMAN, STOP LOOKING FOR THE PERFECT MAN.” – Another simple quote that you can live by!

 

My 70th birthday - February 4, 2014

My 70th birthday – February 4, 2014

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My Simple Quotes to Live By – Week of June 22, 2014

“LEARN TO BE HAPPY NOW, NOT ‘WHEN. . .’” ~ Joyce Fields

 

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A lot of people say things, such as:

• “I’ll be happy ‘when I get a new job.'”
• “I’ll be happy ‘when I get married.'”
• “I’ll be happy ‘when I get a new house.'”
• “I’ll be happy ‘when I get divorced.'”
• “I’ll be happy ‘when my ship comes in.'”
• “I’ll be happy ‘when I hit the lottery.'”

They have not learned that happiness is not a destination. It is a state of mind; an attitude. It comes from within. Most people who have peace of mind, are happy, positive people. They are grateful people.

They are already happy–regardless of their circumstances!

We should all go about the business of learning that!

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“LEARN TO BE HAPPY NOW, NOT ‘WHEN. . .’” – Another simple quote that you can live by!

My 70th birthday - February 4, 2014

My 70th birthday – February 4, 2014

“I write books that inspire people on their journey to make the world a better place.”

 

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My Simple Quotes to Live By – Week of June 15, 2014

“HOW CAN A PERSON HATE OTHERS AND CLAIM TO LOVE GOD AT THE SAME TIME?” ~ Joyce Fields

 

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In every religion, hate goes against all that God stands for. God IS love. There is no good reason to hate others because they are different from us. Embrace the differences.

The world would be a much better place if we replace hate with love!

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“HOW CAN A PERSON HATE OTHERS AND CLAIM TO LOVE GOD AT THE SAME TIME?” – Another simple quote that you can live by!

 

My 70th birthday - February 4, 2014

My 70th birthday – February 4, 2014

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My Simple Quotes to Live By – Week of June 8, 2014

“IF YOU CREATE GOOD ONES, MEMORIES CAN WARM YOUR HEART FOREVER.” ~ Joyce Fields

 

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Most of us don’t really think about it, but, as we live our lives from day to day, we are creating memories–especially for the children in our lives.  Remember. . .

The special times when your mother read or sang to you as you fell off to sleep.

The smell of a relative’s house when she baked cookies or prepared some other delicious food.

The way that grandma tended to your scraped knee.

The times when you and your father went to the barber shop so you and he could get a haircut.

What good memories are you creating?

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“IF YOU CREATE GOOD ONES, MEMORIES CAN WARM YOUR HEART FOREVER.” – Another simple quote that you can live by!

 

My 70th birthday - February 4, 2014

My 70th birthday – February 4, 2014

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My Simple Quotes to Live By – Week of June 1, 2014

“SLEEP IS A WONDERFUL THING; YOU SELDOM WAKE UP FEELING AS BAD AS THE NIGHT BEFORE.” ~ Joyce Fields

 

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God did a fantastic thing when He (or She!) created sleep!! The phrase, “sleep on it,” has profound meaning, because when you wake up, you are in a clearer, more calm state of mind.

When you don’t feel well, the advice that is most often given is, “get some rest” (which means “get some sleep”). When you wake up the next day, you usually feel much better.

Thank you, God, for creating sleep!!

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“SLEEP IS A WONDERFUL THING; YOU SELDOM WAKE UP FEELING AS BAD AS THE NIGHT BEFORE.” – Another simple quote that you can live by!

 

My 70th birthday - February 4, 2014

My 70th birthday – February 4, 2014

I write books that inspire YOU on YOUR journey to make the world a better place.”

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